Our first u/s isn't what we had hoped for.......

Today was our first u/s. And needless to say we didn't the news we had hoped and prayed for. There was a visible gestational sac and fetal pole but it had no heartbeat. Both fetail pole and sac were measuring at 6 weeks. The u/s tech called it a "missed miscarriage" or "missed abortion". So I called my dr's office and they want me in tomorrow at 2pm to discuss another u/s in a week and possibly what else needs to be done from here.So far the u/s tech, my ob nurse, and the ob don't sound at all hopeful that is a viale pregnancy. We on the other hand want to think the "good" and pray that it is too early for a hearbeat. All I can think of is "I wish I knew when we heard Jayden's hb so we have something to compare it to"... but my mind skips over that for some reason and I can't think of it. All I can remember is it took us atleast 2-3 u/s to finally find his heartbeat... so I'm praying the same goes for "buttercup". So if I alongside my husband can ask for some contined "sticky" baby vibes and prayers we would be more than grateful and appreciative! Maybe when they say to hold off telling your loved ones and friends til the 2nd trimester , they aren't kidding! But when you've lost one baby already the next pregnancy is that much more reason to celebrate and I guess that's why we spread the word pretty quickly! We're being hopeful! Not all hope is lost til we see and find reason! :)